Dear girls,
Raising you has been one of my greatest joys. I have loved every stage of your lives. I have seen you grow with bittersweet feelings, and I've seen you develop. I've watched you as your balance and coordination has gotten more sure. Some days I would tear up just watching you eat lunch together. Life is wild. There are so many ups and downs, twists and turns. It's unpredictable, and sometimes (when you are lucky) it can be very predictable. Consistency is a blessing. We have had a very simple life. Some might call it boring, but I wouldn't trade it for the world.
I have always been sure of my love for your daddy, and you, too. I have always considered it a privilege to be a wife and a mother. For some people marriage and children don't come easy. For some people marriage and children don't come at all in this life. We are very blessed to have our healthy, little family.
There are times that life is not perfect. There are times that we lose people that are very close to us. At those times it is very important to cling to our family and our Heavenly Father. You see, Heavenly Father loves us and wants what is best for us. Sometimes we will witness miracles, and sometimes we will be made stronger through trials. Sometimes we will witness miracles because of trials. I know it is hard, but during hard times, especially, we need to keep life into perspective. Rough patches won't last forever, and you are stronger than you think.
We also need to remember our Heavenly Father during the good times, too. He blesses us with so much, and we need to be mindful of Him. Let Him in during your good days. Relish on them together. He wants to be a part of your good times as well. Keep a notebook of the things you are thankful for. It will be helpful for those hard times. Don't forget about the hard times, either. Writing down your failures and burns will help you see the miraculous outcomes.
Love each other. Friends will come and go, but you will always have your siblings. Enjoy each other's company. Spend time together, talk together, and commiserate together. You will be so grateful for the work you put into your relationships. Being close will be such a blessing in your life. Share everything with each other and listen to each other. Stick up for one another and be the best of friends.
Lastly, I want you to know of the love that your dad and I have for you. I had no clue I could love so deeply. I know that I am not perfect, and so my love is imperfect as well but I have never loved anyone more than I have loved your dad and you girls. One of these days I hope you have the blessing of meeting a man of your own to love. Cherish him. Put everything you have into your relationship with him. Marriage isn't about 50/50. You each need to put in 100 percent. Serve him and care for him. Don't be afraid to show your love for him.
You girls are my greatest accomplishment. I couldn't be more proud of you. Keep your head up and be strong. I know you can attain anything you set your mind to if you are willing to work hard enough. I will always be here cheering you on.
I love you,
Mom
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